7 Life Lessons From The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari
The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari by Robin Sharma
tells the extraordinary story of Julian Mantle, a lawyer forced to confront the spiritual crisis of his
out-of-balance life, and the subsequent wisdom that he gains on a
life-changing odyssey that enables him to create a life of passion,
purpose and peace.
The personality development journey of both characters from the book, Julian Mantle and his best friend John, is one that Robin Sharma wrote, in poetic prose, as a guidebook to life.
Julian Mantle, the seven-figure-making lawyer had everything. But it didn’t make him happy.
So, in search of wisdom and happiness, he sold his mansion and his expensive Ferrari and headed to the Himalayan mountains where he studied the wisdom of the sages.
7 Life Lessons
1. Cultivate Your Mind
Some people believe that making mistakes is like making irreparable dents. It’s hard to let go of negative thoughts, especially criticism.
Ironically, under the grand laws of nature, our mind can only hold one thought at a time. By making negative thoughts your focus, you’ll embody it, or worst, manifest it. This mentality will only hinder your personal growth.
The biggest lesson from the book is how the quality of your life is determined by the quality of your thoughts. Julian Mantle transformed himself from a depressed, obese lawyer into a youthful, optimistic man — all by conquering his mind.
Mastering your mind means seeing setbacks as opportunities. By envisioning your dreams, you give your mind the power to cultivate it and make it a reality.
So occupy your mind with uplifting thoughts. You’ll come to realize, the power of cultivating a rich mentality will help you manifest the energy you’ll need to attain the success you desire.
Ironically, under the grand laws of nature, our mind can only hold one thought at a time. By making negative thoughts your focus, you’ll embody it, or worst, manifest it. This mentality will only hinder your personal growth.
The biggest lesson from the book is how the quality of your life is determined by the quality of your thoughts. Julian Mantle transformed himself from a depressed, obese lawyer into a youthful, optimistic man — all by conquering his mind.
Mastering your mind means seeing setbacks as opportunities. By envisioning your dreams, you give your mind the power to cultivate it and make it a reality.
So occupy your mind with uplifting thoughts. You’ll come to realize, the power of cultivating a rich mentality will help you manifest the energy you’ll need to attain the success you desire.
2. The Purpose Of Life Is A Life Of Purpose
Imagine discovering a map that leads you directly to a treasure chest.
That’s how exciting it would be when you discover your life’s purpose.
But this idea appears as elusive as the leprechaun at the end of the
rainbow.
So here are action steps from the Sages of Sivana to ensure your goal is as attainable as you believe it to be:
- Create a clear mental picture of your treasure trove or end goal;
- Give yourself some positive pressure so you don’t slip back into your bad habits and self-doubts;
- Write a goal-contract with yourself and include a timeline;
- Build your habit by taking a brave step every day towards achieving it. Remember: Baby steps are still steps;
- Laugh along the way because a day without laughter or a day without love is a day without life.
These steps might seem simple and obvious,
but what makes goals, success and destiny appear so elusive is because
the pursuer has yet to arrive at self-knowledge.
Self-knowledge is the DNA of self-enlightenment.
And like the towering lighthouse guiding
lost ships to the harbor, you’ll come to see that dedicating your life
purposefully is the secret to success and happiness.
3. Do The Things You Fear The Most
The lesson from the monk is that success on
the outside begins within. When you identify the things that are
holding you back, you should face them. Do the things you fear, because
you’re building the foundation of success and leadership within
yourself. Leading yourself first gives others the vote of confidence
that you’re capable of leading them too.
So act with integrity and be guided by your heart.
4. Live With Discipline
We’re all the more tempted and distracted
today by the noises our devices make and the people we interact with on a
daily basis. Here’s an exercise from the book you can apply to your
life immediately.
Repeat the mantra below and take a vow of silence for the entire day where you only speak to respond to a direct question:
“I am more than I appear to be.
All the world’s strength and power rest inside me.”
All the world’s strength and power rest inside me.”
It takes courage to nurture self-discipline because it’s not easy.
But once you give yourself the power to be
more than your environment, you’ll ultimately win and unshackle yourself
from a mental prison.
5. Respect Your Time
How do you savor life to the fullest and not waste a single moment of your time? By reminding yourself that today could very well be your last day.
So it’s high time you stop accepting a life
of mediocrity. The only way to experience more is to push yourself to
do more. Because only 20% of your time, dedicated to the day-to-day
activities, yield lasting results that could influence the quality of
your life.
Being efficient with your time also means being ruthless about it.
You have to have the courage to say “no”.
Start small. By showing how much you value
your time, others will learn to recognize it and as a consequence,
respect you for it.
6. Practice Daily Acts Of Kindness
Cultivating your mind to improve the
quality of your life should run in parallel to your next action step of
cultivating a new perspective. Specifically, one that revolves around
the concept of giving. Giving more to life and to your community is a paradigm-shifting perspective from the “self” mentality of survival of the fittest.
Practicing gratitude and dedicating time to the act of giving, can help you find your purpose in the world.
Expressing gratitude daily plants the seed within yourself that each day is sacred. The richer the relationship you build around you, the more abundance comes your way.
Because in life, your time and energy are the two valuable resources you could offer to anyone.
Remove the idea of the self and focus on the quality of your contribution.
7. Never Sacrifice Happiness For Achievement
Ask yourself, what’s the point of climbing the steps of success if you have missed the first steps of your own kids?
Many high-achievers can turn short-sighted when asked to choose a path in the dilemma.
Sacrifice time spent with loved ones now and give them everything money can buy? Or sacrifice the promise of comfort, in favor of spending time with them now.
So ask yourself again, if you would rather
take each step along the way with awe and love or run through your days
hoping to expedite your win towards an elusive pot of gold.
At the end of the day, your happiness is a choice you have to make and is a journey you have to take.
The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari Is one of the best book that everybody should Read.
Thankyou For Reading Good Bless You.
Written By Ishank Sachdeva.
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